I thought it was cool because it rhymed xD LOL but anyway! You don’t want to lose your virginity to just ANYONE, because you’ll regret it. You should save it for your future husband or wife. You know why? because it’s the only thing they have that no one else can take. You’ve probably liked or have been in relationships with other people, but your virginity is the only thing your spouse has. And sex really can wait, the way I see it is, the more sex you have the more boring it’s going to be. So by the time you get to your future husband or wife, you’ll probably just get sick of it. Another thing is, if someone is pressuring you to have sex with them, they probably don’t love you. Because if they really loved you, they would be willing to wait. and LOVE isn’t about the sexual things in your relationship. It’s about the other person and their personality. A person should be able to love you even without those temptations.
this is so true. but his quote is hilarious !
cute (= hahaha.
Erm I can’t really I agree with this. I agree with what you say mostly but me being a realist gives me a more realistic approach to this. I mean it is your personal choice who you lose it to. Your boyfriend now or your husband later. Your girlfriend now or your wife later. It’s up to the person in the end, mistake or not we’re only human. It maybe one of the few things you’ll ever have that they can take true. But what if your husband beats you? Wouldn’t you feel some regret marrying a guy who abuses you? How about if your wife cheats on you? Was losing it to her such a great idea then? In reality, things don’t always work out the way you want it to or think it will end up that way. That’s the difference between expectations and reality. People always expect what they think to turn out the way they plan it to but reality always has a way of slapping you in the face. Doing too much of anything is never good so yeah a person will get bored of doing it too much eventually or at least with the same person. If your boyfriend pressures you to have sex with him, then that’s just sad for him and I pity the girl who submits into the pressure. It doesn’t necessarily mean he doesn’t love you. It just means he has a little dick and has to force you to do something he wants rather than just cuddle under that blanket. If they really love you, yes they’ll wait but it doesn’t mean if you lose it to them they stop loving you or anything like that. Love isn’t about the sexual things you do. Love isn’t about the other person and their personality either. Love is about the bond you share as two people. The affection, the trust, the good and the bad. Love means putting up with all their flaws and all the bullshit they put you through. But then again, who really knows what love means?
Oh and Mark, we gotta skate soon! You bailed on me today. -___- Invite Brandon and Lawrence lol.
Today I’ve learned how much of a child I still am. I learned that the people you hang out with have a great influence on who you are and what you do even if you realize it or not. I got into a huge argument with my grandfather today. He got mad at me because me and a few friends were outside doing something he frowns upon. It wasn’t drugs (i.e. weed, cocaine, heroine, etc.) and we weren’t drinking. It’s something I rather not say but all I kept doing was cursing at my grandfather and telling him to leave me and my friends alone. I regret cursing him out and yelling at him but it was ridiculous how he was reacting. He always does this and I always feel embarrassed and hurt at the same time. No one else has a grandfather that does this! No one or at least anyone I know. I kept telling him that I was 18 and that I know what I’m doing that I’m not a child anymore. I always feel like they’re treating me like a twelve year old. Yet, I feel more a child after his talk. My grandfather told me
“I love you so much. To the bottom of my heart I care for you. Please stop doing what you’re doing because it’s ruining you. You can do it but we’re only scolding you because it’s destroying you. You won’t live as long as I have if you keep going. If you keep going you’ll only see you’re demise. I am so proud of you but if only you would stop doing that and be a good boy please I am only begging you as your grandfather. I hope that you understand what I’m trying to tell you. Its for your own good. You’re my only grandson. My only grandson! Does that not mean anything to you? Don’t follow what you’re friends are doing. Don’t be influenced by what they do because you know better than that. You’re still young and I know all you want to do is just venture out. You just want to see the world with your eyes but don’t drift from the right path. Even if you stray from the right path, please remember what I always tell you. Before you know it you’ll be as old as I am. You still don’t know whats right and wrong. You will in time but now you’re still growing. I’m 81 years old now and I won’t live that much longer. I hope you remember me after I die. I hope you remember this conversation between us. Always know that I love you and your sisters. I will do anything for you. I will even cry for you if I have to. Please don’t follow after what you’re friends do. It’s all I ask for. You promised me last time and I still believe you but please swear that you won’t do it again.”
Then he grabbed my head and gave me a nuggie or whatever you call and it and said
“I am so proud of you. You’re almost going to college and a successful man. Please don’t do anything that will stop you short from doing so.”
I almost cried. I’m not being a little bitch or anything but I love my grandfather. He’s right about what he said. He knows what he’s talking about. Him and my grandmother have been there for me since day one. Most of you know how I grew up without a father and most of you know that my mom had trouble raising me after my father left us. It was my grandparents to had to step in and take care of me and my siblings. They sweat blood to raise all three of us. Day and night for the past 18 years of my life they have been raising me. I remember how my grandfather would always carry me or drive me around in his prized motorcycle. He thought me about the ocean. I remember seeing the Pacific Ocean in Cebu and saying “Dagat! Dagat!” (Ocean in Visaya). Today, he thought me a little more about life that I was blind to. I’m going to stop doing what I did. I’m going to not only for my grandfather but for myself also.
It looks like I’ve still got a lot to learn about life. I got smacked in the face with reality. I don’t know everything. I’m not an adult. The age and number 18 don’t mean shit or compare to anything close with to experience. I’m one step back but at least I can still start over.
If I ever have kids, & they're upset, I won't tell them that are people starving in China or anything like that cause it wouldn't change the fact that they're upset. & even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn't change the fact that you have what you have.